But whatever, it's not about you

Dating advice for newly divorced women

Do things that interest you and

Take things slow and don't give up on love. My husband is having a midlife crisis and said he is in love with someone else.

Just look around you and see all the strong women who survived and overcame the emotional grief associated with divorcing. Not a month before, but just at the right time. Look ahead to your future and know that with the Lord all of your hopes and dreams can still come true. But the first think I bought when I got money was running shoes.

Only tackle things at a time and be patient with yourself. The sun will shine over you again.

Maybe he's just totally selfcentered

Maybe he's just totally self-centered. Do things that interest you and meet like minded people. There is release and freedom in forgiveness. Penniless, but I have my integrity, and a new life ahead of me.

Next keep a journal and go back once in a while to see how far you have come along and become. When you help others heal, you heal as well. Find your faith, I know it leaves because I am once again looking for mine. So tell your girlfriend that you trust every emotion you experience. After all, they did not choose this to happen.

Plan things to look forward to with those you trust. Confide in trusted friends. Every person is different. It's time to take advantage of the love your friends and family have for you. Cry when you can't do anything else.

Ask him to heal the pain you feel. Yes I do, but they are getting shorter lived and I find myself planning fun things like buying a house and making a new life for myself. Talk Talk and Talk as many times as it takes to make those feelings and emotions come out.